Meet The Participants Of “ToGetHer”: Korea’s First Lesbian Dating Show

“ToGetHer” is the first Korean lesbian dating show, breaking barriers in Korean society. The new South Korean reality show is creating a buzz as evidence of the existence of a market for inclusive content.

South Korea is a conservative nation where LGBTQ+ continues not to be socially accepted and is generally regarded as a taboo. However, social attitudes are gradually changing. Gallup Korea says support for gay marriage legalization went from 17 percent to 40 percent between 2023 and the year before.

With that said, LGBTQ+ Korean TV shows are starting to gain interest from both Korean and international audiences. After airing its first episode on April 25, “ToGetHer” immediately caught attention worldwide, not only for its progressive theme but also for the stunning visuals of the participants. Many fans have begun searching for their Instagram accounts to know them better.

About “ToGetHer” 

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“ToGetHer” follows eight women living together in a shared house on Jeju Island as they search for love. Similar to other popular Korean reality dating shows, the participants engage in various activities, including dates, to form romantic connections.

The new show was created by the same team behind “His Man,” a gay dating reality series that premiered in 2022 on Wavve and successfully ran for three seasons. “His Man” became the Wavve’s top-performing program, increasing paid subscriptions to the platform, according to Wavve.

Following the success of “His Man,” Wavve premiered “ToGetHer,” setting another milestone for LGBTQ+ representation in Korean entertainment.

Meet the “ToGetHer” Participants

1. Kim LeeWon

Instagram: @xinxi_ix

Short bio: LeeWon is an influencer with a strong sense of fashion, as seen through her Instagram posts. She describes herself as someone who invests wholeheartedly in relationships.

2. HeeYoung

Instagram: @c0c0abutterkiss

Short bio: HeeYoung reportedly works as a tattoo artist. She describes herself as someone who takes her time to fall in love.

3. SeoYeon

Instagram: @violetseoyeon

Short bio: SeoYeon is rumored to be a Studio Choom producer and a former HYBE staff member.

4. Kim JinAh

Instagram: @jinjin.pink

Short bio: JinAh is a writer and YouTuber who graduated from Yonsei University. Her latest book is titled “나는 가끔 나와 헤어지고 싶다” (“Sometimes I Want to Break Up With Myself”).

5. DaGyo

Instagram: @daaxxgyo

Short bio: DaGyo is reportedly a nurse. Like HeeYoung, she describes herself as someone who takes time to build deep, meaningful relationships.

6. MiRang

Instagram: @rang9ya

Short bio: Less is known about MiRang’s profession, but she shared that her ideal partner would be gentle, kind, and good-looking with a beautiful smile.

7. HanGyul

Instagram: @burn.nightly (currently private)

Short bio: HanGyul reportedly works as a singer-songwriter. She describes herself as someone who expresses emotions openly.

8. MinWoo

Instagram: @mw___wm_

Short bio: Minwoo was briefly introduced in Episode 2. There is currently little information about her, but fans are eager to learn more.

Why “ToGetHer” Matters

Dating shows have a vast following in South Korea, and programs such as “I Am Solo” and “Single’s Inferno” have had multiple seasons. These shows are popular because they resonate with audiences by offering relatable emotions, a desire for romantic connection, and experiences that feel unattainable in reality.

The Korea Institute of Public Administration’s 2023 survey of 8,221 Korean citizens revealed that 52.3% of respondents were still unwilling to accept LGBTQ+ individuals as fellow members of society. This highlights why LGBTQ+ representation is rare in Korean media.

Having a lesbian dating show like “ToGetHer” is significant. It provides the LGBTQ+ community with the representation they need within mainstream media. Representation can help LGBTQ+ individuals feel validated, boost self-confidence, and experience a sense of belonging.

For the wider audience, it challenges existing misconceptions and cultivates empathy, gradually creating more inclusive social attitudes.

Final Thoughts

South Korea still has a long journey toward fully embracing LGBTQ+ communities, shaped by traditional values and social norms. However, shows like “ToGetHer” provide hope and visibility, making minority voices feel seen and heard.

Change takes time, but small steps like this light the path toward understanding and acceptance. Representation matters — and for many watching in silence, it can offer the courage to express who they are.

New episodes of “ToGetHer” are released every Friday on Wavve (for Korean viewers) and are also available on Rakuten TV for international audiences, depending on the region.